How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

The perfect way to get a girl to fall in love with you is not complicated. Usually it is through common sense, advice and solid rules. This is not about those rules and advice. This is about how through basic concepts that once applied can be analyzed and used to strengthen a girl's feeling of love for you. It is love, so rigid advice may not work. Allow this to be more of a fluid guideline.

STEPS

1. Open your eyes. Women are everywhere and women are looking to fall in love. If you want a girl out there to fall in love with you, chances are a girl wants someone out there to fall in love with her. Find a girl anywhere and you are set. It doesn't matter if she is in a bar or if she walks next to you on your way to the bathroom. If you don't know where girls are, try going 1 mile in any direction and look around. Finding a girl is the hardest part, once you find a girl, go to step
   
   
2. Don't set expectations, become like a romantic Buddha, become desireless. Expect nothing from the girl. This is not to say don't want the girl, it is just don't want to want the girl. If you haven't ever talked to her before, don't expect to walk away with her number. If you are friends and want more, don't expect her to go along. Be without want and it will cut out a lot of problems later.
   
   
3. Kill her a mammoth. People don't seem to systematically decide who they fall in love with (well most don't). The process is kind of "messed up". It often comes with time, and time is often needed. So in the transition of falling in love, you need to show the girl that you are worth being around. This is the fun part! Show her you are nice, talented, or smart. Hell, show her you can be cynical and rude about everything. Show her you can do calculus or jump rope or sing. No matter how stupid it may seem, show her you are lovable and she will begin to love you on her own. Remember - this is where you need to be yourself! Have fun with her. There are no specifics to this step. Just show her who you are and put yourself out there.
   
   
4. Give her space. This step can be looked at in many ways and can get distorted easily. The point is to let her give herself what she needs in order to fall in love with you. Space is somehow what is most common or most traditional for some reason. The point is to give the girl the control of what happens next. This step isn't about ignoring her so SHE has to call you, or avoiding long conversations with her to torment her into loving you. Just allow her to live her life outside you. Allow her to walk away from the bar at any point. Allow her to see a movie without you. Allow her to be without you and she will then decide to love you on her own terms.
   
   
5. Honest and open. Tell her truthful things about what you think and feel. Easy enough? if you love the girl, tell her. If you think she is pretty, tell her. If you think she has too many keys on her key chain, but it really doesn't matter and is a cute little quirk she has, tell her. Let her know what is going on with you. But be careful not to be a kissup. If she is a pretty girl and you can tell guys are always kissing, try to be different from them.
   
   
6. Be ready to sacrifice. There is always something that gets in the way with love. People miss love all the time because of life. A job opportunity comes up, another person comes into the picture, someone isn't ready. Realize that a sacrifice will have to be made. It may be something huge or maybe something trivial. Look for it, it will be around the corner...
   
   
7. Smile! Be funny! Girls love a sense of humor, but don't go around pranking people and making wise cracks; girls don't like that.

-Relationship Dr.-